Q: Are you taking new applications?

A: As of 9/15/2019, I am not taking new applications or scheduling new sessions. This is due to a very serious personal life issue and I expect you all to respect my wishes. I will update you as soon as I can. Join my email list to make sure you get the updates.

Q: Are you willing to travel?

A: I offer sessions in my surrounding area (North Carolina, Virginia, and South Carolina). If you would like for me to go any farther than that, contact me for more information missaricanes@gmail.com.

Q: Can I have my sessions at home?

A: No, even if I come to your city, we will have the session at a location that I choose.

Q: Do you have sessions in dungeons?

A: No, I only offer sessions in a domestic environment (a clean hotel or a home that I rent temporarily)

Q: Do you offer sexual activities in your sessions?

A: No, not at all. I do not offer anything overtly sexual in my sessions. This includes but is not limited to: masturbation, penetrative sex, oral sex, fingering/sexual stimulation. I will likely rub your ass after I have turned it bright red but other than that, the answer is NO. Any attempt at sexual stimulation or gratification during our session will result in you being kicked out without a refund.

Q: Do you offer couples sessions?

A: Yes, I offer sessions to couples that are wanting to be spanked together. And also to couples that would like to be introduced and/or trained in domestic discipline (a tutorial if you will).

Q: Can I purchase your used panties/socks/hosiery/bra’s?

A: Even if I did sell these items, I guarantee you wouldn’t be able to afford it.

Q: Are you discrete?

A: Very. Your privacy is important to me. I do not share your contact information with anyone. I will not ask for your address, employment info, ID # etc. And I absolutely do not talk to anyone about what happens during our sessions without your permission.

Q: Can I see a picture of your face?

A: No. I will not request a photograph of your face and you cannot request one of mine.

Q: Do you do OTK and/or barehand?

A: Yes I do OTK spankings regularly. If you think you are too tall to go over my knee, trust me. You are not. I spank with my barehand either as the full session or as a warm up before implements.

Q: Do you have a safe word?

A: No. I do not use safe words. Our sessions will be safe, sane, and consensual; negotiated before hand. However, I give real spanking experiences and if I allow you to have control over the session, it wouldn’t be a real spanking, would it?

Q: Do you allow sessions to be recorded?

A: No. I always offer to take post session pictures of my clients if they wish but I do not allow sessions to be recorded in any way.

Q: Can I tell you what to wear to sessions?

A: No. You can make a polite suggestion, but ultimately, I wear what I want. I’m always in hosiery of one sort or another and usually in heels. I alternate between pants and skirts but it is always business casual in the way of teacher/attractive librarian.

Q: Can I give you gifts?

A: I do accept gifts, however, giving me gifts will not get you any special treatment, discount on services or extra time on sessions. You giving me gifts is simply because you think I am awesome (and I am). I accept monetary tribute through my PayPal link paypal.me/HolisticDiscipline . I accept physical gifts such as hosiery or spanking implements in person at sessions ONLY. I do not give out mailing addresses for gifts.


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